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Soma+IQ presents

The Co‑Regulation Course

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The study and practice of human connection.

Taught live. Practiced in pairs. Six classes over three weeks.

Applications close September 7

Regulation is leadership.

Regulated people regulate relationships, regulate families, and
regulate communities.

Your nervous system is the technology to change the lives around you. Be the person who brings calm to every situation. Speak safety into all the bodies around you.

When you become fluent in the language of the nervous system, families become more connected, teams perform better, and people think clearer. Creativity flows.

Co-regulation is the skill that changes everything. It’s called having vagal authority, and it’s the greatest gift you can give to the world.

In their words

What changes when you strengthen these skills

People who’ve been through the course. Tap any name to read their story.

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Alison Ungaro

Past student

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Matthew Budenholzer

Past student

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Shannon Caddel

HeartMath Practitioner

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Nicole

Past student

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Alison Ungaro

Past student

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Matthew Budenholzer

Past student

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Sonia Bhandari

Coach

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Laura Bruno

Therapist

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Lorraine Santos

Past student

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Hali Bailey

Breathwork facilitator

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Sonia Bhandari

Coach

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Laura Bruno

Therapist

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Lorraine Santos

Past student

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Hali Bailey

Breathwork facilitator

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Maud

Past student

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Scott Smith

Past student

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Wendy Radtke

Career changer

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Mark Thomas

Past student

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Maud

Past student

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Scott Smith

Past student

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Wendy Radtke

Career changer

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Mark Thomas

Past student

Three weeks · six live classes

What you’ll practice, class by class

Every class is the same rhythm: short teaching, live demo, then you practice with a partner in breakout rooms. Real exercises, real people, real time.

Class 1: Intro to Co-Regulation Skills

Learn the language of your inner world: what you're sensing, what you're feeling, and how to say it.

Class 2: Alignment

Separate the story in your head from what's true, and express what you actually need.

Class 3: Attunement

Stay present with another person's emotions and let them feel that you're actually with them.

Class 4: Holding Space

Become the presence people trust and open up to, without judgment or agenda.

Class 5: The Somatic Breathwork Session

A full guided breathwork journey: everything you've practiced, experienced in your body.

Class 6: Integration

Bring it all together into one practice you can use with anyone, for life.

In their words

Voice of Past Students

People who’ve been through the course. Tap any name to read their story.

What changes when you strengthen these skills

You say the hard thing.

Clearly. Without attacking them, without abandoning yourself.

You keep your energy.

Being yourself costs less than performing yourself.

You hear what's not being said.

The shift in their voice. The thing underneath the words.

No emotion is too big for you.

Your partner's frustration, your kid's meltdown, your friend's grief. You can stay.

People open up around you.

When you welcome people instead of fixing them, they tell you the truth.

The room settles to you.

The calmest nervous system in the room leads the room.

From the podcast

Your teacher

Steven Jaggers

Steven Jaggers, co-founder of Soma+IQ™, has trained nearly 3,000 practitioners in 38 countries through a university-accredited training. These skills were the first thing he taught every practitioner, and they kept telling him the same thing: this changed my marriage and my parenting before it ever changed my sessions. So he built a course just for the skills.

“Stop focusing on healing. Start focusing on connection. Everything else is a byproduct.”

$597 · Applications close September 7

Our guarantee is simple and straightforward.

Try the first two classes

If it's not for you, full refund. No questions, no hard feelings.

Wow! The whole experience was much more than I expected. Even during the cohort I noticed a definite shift in how my inner voice is speaking to me. Less critical. Thank you so much for the opportunity.

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ALEXIS DEAL

Founder of Level Up

How this works

Not a course you watch. A practice you do.

This is somatic work: learned in the body, not memorized in the mind. There are no lectures to sit through and no homework to fall behind on. We do the work right here in class.

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You practice with a real person, every class.

Short teaching, live demo, then breakout rooms with a partner. These skills are built between nervous systems, not in your head.

Practice

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You are the curriculum.

Bring your real life: the conversation you’re avoiding, the relationship that keeps looping, the thing you haven’t said. That’s the material.

Real life

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You use it the same night.

Every exercise maps to a conversation you’re already having. Class ends, and your next conversation is the practice field.

Tonight

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One full somatic breathwork session.

The same session we open our practitioner trainings with. Felt in your bones, not understood in your head.

Breathwork

Course overview

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The live schedule

Six live classes over three weeks, Tuesdays & Thursdays. Every session runs 12:00–
2:30 PM Pacific - check your own timezone. All classes are recorded, with a short podcast episode between weeks.

Tue
8

SEPTEMBER 8 · Intro to Co-Regulation Skills

12:00–2:30 PM PT

Thu
10

SEPTEMBER 10 · Alignment

12:00–2:30 PM PT

Tue
15

SEPTEMBER 15 · Attunement

12:00–2:30 PM PT

Thu
17

SEPTEMBER 17 · Holding Space

12:00–2:30 PM PT

Tue
22

SEPTEMBER 22 · The Somatic Breathwork Session

12:00–2:30 PM PT

Thu
24

SEPTEMBER 24 · Integration

12:00–2:30 PM PT

Because this work happens live and in relationship, attendance matters. Recordings are there when life happens.

SEPTEMBER 2026 cohort

The Co‑Regulation Course

Who this is for

You want the hard conversations in your life to go differently.

You're willing to be honest, even when that's daunting.

No experience needed. Most people join solo.

What's included

6 live classes over 3 weeks

Partner practice every class

A full somatic breathwork class

Recordings + integration journal

Tuition: $597

Installment options at checkout.
Fully credited toward any Soma+IQ™ program, including Practitioner Training.

This work lands deepest in pairs.

Refer a friend or partner, and you’ll get $100 back.

Apply (3 minutes). Accepted participants receive an enrollment link.

Applications close SEPTEMBER 7

Try the first two classes. If it's not for you, full refund.

Your application

Frequently asked questions

What is co-regulation?

Regulation means choice: a nervous system that can turn on when needed and settle when it’s time. Co-regulation is two nervous systems finding balance together. It’s the exchange underneath every conversation you’ve ever had, and it’s a trainable skill.

Is this backed by science?

Co-regulation is one of the oldest findings in developmental psychology: self-regulation is built out of thousands of moments of co-regulation. From birth, we develop our nervous system in connection with the nervous systems around us, and that never stops being true. This course teaches adults how to do on purpose what we were all designed to do from the beginning.

Who is this course for?

Anyone whose life runs on relationships: parents, partners, leaders, practitioners. If you want the hard conversations in your life to go differently, this is for you. No experience needed, and most people join solo.

Do I have to sign up with a partner?

No. Most people enroll solo, and you’ll be paired with another participant for every exercise. That said, the work lands deepest in pairs. Bring a friend, partner, or family member, and you’ll get $100 back after you enroll.

What’s the time commitment?

Six live classes over three weeks, Tuesdays and Thursdays, 2.5 hours each. Between weeks there’s a short podcast episode. Beyond that, the practice happens inside the conversations you’re already having.

What sets this apart from other communication courses?

Most courses teach you what to say. This one is somatic: it trains what’s underneath the words, in the body, through live practice with a real person. Short teaching, demo, then you do the exercises together. Whatever you are being is being communicated, so we train the being, not the script.

Is this therapy?

No. This is skills training. You’ll feel things, that’s how the skill gets built, but nobody is diagnosing or fixing you. Nothing about you needs fixing.

I’ve already done breathwork or meditation. Is this redundant?

No, it’s the next step. Self-regulation is the instrument. Co-regulation is playing it with other people, which is where your relationships, your family, and your work actually happen.

What if I’m nervous about the partner exercises?

Everything is structured with clear roles and sentence stems. You’re never performing and never share more than you choose. Nervousness is welcome here. It’s information.

What are the reasons I should NOT take this course?

Honest answer: don’t join if you want information instead of practice. There are no lectures to passively absorb. Don’t join if you’re not willing to be honest about your real life, because your real life is the curriculum. And don’t join if you can’t make most sessions live, because this work happens in relationship, in real time.

What if I miss a class?

Recordings are provided. The course works best live, so check the schedule before you commit.

Can my employer reimburse this?

Often, yes. This qualifies as communication and leadership training, and many companies cover it under professional development. Download our reimbursement template here.

Does this course carry CEU or university credit?

CEUs are not available for this course itself. University-accredited credit is available through the separate Soma+IQ™ Practitioner Training, and your tuition here is fully credited toward it.

What’s the refund policy?

Come to the first two classes. If it’s not for you, we’ll refund you in full. No questions asked.

The study and practice of human connection.

Six live classes. Real people. Skills you'll use with everyone, for the rest of your life.

Applications close SEPTEMBER 7

Have more questions?

Contact us below, and one of our Soma+IQ™ Educators will gladly reach out via text or email.

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